From Hyderabad to Lethbridge Who Would’ve Thought?
Unsure exactly how he would accomplish that lofty goal, he signed up for the five-year co-op program. Over the course of his degree he’d spend several semesters in paid positions to figure out how he could help people.
There were a wide range of fulfilling co-op opportunities. Roop could be a chiropractic assistant, a health and safety program coordinator or student ergonomist. While scrolling through the list of jobs, he found a posting as a live-in assistant at L’Arche.
As he researched L’Arche, it felt like a place where he could learn and grow. It wasn’t a care home for disabled people; it was a home for a diverse range of individuals. The organization provided a level of freedom he’d never really experienced: the freedom to be himself within a community. Coming from a city of 10 million people in the middle of India, the chance to live in an inclusive community was too good to pass up.
Roop applied for a co-op position at one of the closest L’Arche houses to Waterloo, one-hundred kilometres away, in London. He polished his resume, wrote a detailed cover letter and had a great interview. Nonetheless, he was turned down. It was probably time to start looking for a different type of co-op program in Southern Ontario but now his heart was set on a position with L’Arche.
He applied to L’Arche Western Canada. His confidence was shaky coming off the rejection at L’Arche London (not knowing at the time that he was turned down for logistical reasons) but he stayed positive through the interview and was offered a job. From January to April 2020, he’d be working at a house in Lethbridge. He made the three-thousand kilometre journey to the windy Alberta prairies. The opportunity was worth the trip!
Right away the sense of community was evident within his house, Amani, one of three L’Arche houses in the city. He made quick friends with core members and assistants in all three houses. When providing assistance to core members and doing chores around the house, he took pride in his responsibilities. Everything within the house was accomplished with a joint effort between assistants and core members. By simply doing the dishes or laundry, he really felt like he was contributing to his newfound community. This was an idyllic place to spend the semester.
Of course, early 2020 proved to be anything but idyllic. Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, Roop’s house, like L’Arche houses across Canada, went on lockdown in the middle of March. Day programs were cancelled. Visits to other houses were cancelled. Roop went from following his house’s scheduled routine to creating a schedule from scratch, while addressing individual needs. One core member who used to go to the YWCA instead had to run on a treadmill at home. To stave off boredom, the house got an Xbox Kinect and went for morning walks. They had to create an emergency plan in case someone got sick, which created a bit of tension in the house. Roop helped everyone stay positive. (To date, everyone has remained healthy.)
The lockdown was made manageable with a full staff but that was going to change at the end of April. One person from Australia and a couple from Brazil who were meant to fill positions as long-term assistants had their flights postponed indefinitely. The house would really be short-staffed once Roop’s placement ended in April. He could’ve turned away, with no hard feelings from L’Arche, but instead he chose to look forward. If his community was going to continue to thrive, he felt he needed to stay a L’Arche.
Luckily, this was the first of several co-op placements that Roop would have over the course of his degree. He got in touch with his university and shifted around his schedule so that he could do two placements consecutively, extending his job at L’Arche by an additional four months. All his friends in L’Arche were happy to hear the news, but nobody was happier than Roop; he’d get to battle through the pandemic with his friends.
Roop’s looking forward to staying at his house through the summer. Inevitably he will return to Waterloo as he has three more years until he completes his degree. Beyond graduating, he’s still not 100% sure what he will do with his life, though he would love to remain within the L’Arche community, however he can.
Recently, while he was sweeping the dining room, a neighbour, and former community leader, Pat Lennon, dropped by. “Oh look at this,” Pat said, “a student from the University of Waterloo came all the way to Lethbridge to sweep floors. Who'd have thought that sweeping floors would lead to a better world.” Roop never would have believed it just a few months ago, but here he was.
- Caring for Others
- Core Members
- Daily Life
- Day Center
- Day Program
- Disability Arts
- Gifts and Abilities
- Intentional Community
- More Human Society
- Mutual Relationships
- Personal Journey
- Persons with Disabilities
- Service to Others